03. Dear Love, Why haven't I found you yet?

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I just read a post from a website recently, and it talks about love.
Since we all ask this same question especially after BREAK-UP, right?
Why haven't we found love yet? Maybe we believed that we already found it yet we lost it.
What love really means, by the way? Have you felt it? Have you experienced it?
I'll start in asking you: WHAT IS LOVE?
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Many people believe that love is a sensation that magically generates when Mr. and Ms. Right comes along. No wonder why many people are still single. And that includes myself. :))
We fall in love. And we fall out of it.
According to Gila Manolson, Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person. Exactly! But how can we determine if that love is true? How can we fall in love yet fall out after when we first believed we have met the simple word: LOVE? How will we know if you already encountered Mr./Ms. Right? Are Mr. and Ms. Right for real?! Do they really exist?

Love is such a simple word with such a complicated meaning. And only you, yourself, can describe it when you are already in love.
Love comes in different ways and forms. Love has different meanings and views. Love perceives your feelings and thoughts. Some may say that it is a great feeling! It will make you happy, healthy, smile all day and all night, and spice up your boring life. It can destroy us as well, leaving us with a broken heart. But Love can also give us confidence, it can save us from stumble and unbeatable. You may be the most intelligent person in the world, but Love can make you idiot. You may be the strongest earthling in this planet, but it can make you weak in an urgent.
When we searched in our dictionaries, it says there that "Love is a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness." Whaaaaaaaaat?! Indeed love has complicated meaning.

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So why haven't we found LOVE yet? Did you give your first priority in your career? Are you afraid of break up? Do you love yourself too much? Or are you still in love with your EX?

For me, None of the above!
We haven't found love yet because it is not the right time yet. Why rush for love? Let us hold out for someone we feel who is perfect for us. When it is the right time, we'll meet the perfect match and everything will be right.
We are all fair in love because it is free and a precious gift from God. Maybe when we meet the Right Person, we can assure that he/she is what you are asking for the longest time, like how your mom meets your dad. There is no need for us to ask where love is because it is right there in front of us. And when that time comes, WE CAN SET OUR OWN DEFINITION OF LOVE.
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